Life is strange sometimes. I could have easily– no, more than easily-- it was almost a
given--turned out to be a bitter old woman. I might have been the lovely Miss Haversham,
cobwebs and all. Instead, due to some fluke, some twist of fate and perhaps a bump on the head, I have become
more compassionate in my mature years. This surprised me, so I had to do some
double checking to make sure I hadn’t turned into a Marin County left wing,
hippy dippy who has lost touch with all reality. When the two completely different subjects I wanted
to write about converged, I took it as a sign from Buddha
or my late mother, who keeps an eye on things, (okay that's dippy) that I should sit down and try
to explain to everyone what I was thinking about all year long, and why I couldn't focus their conversations about vacation locations or new TV shows.
Cyberbullies and Homeless People
Sometime last year or maybe the year before I made the
mistake of starting to read the comment sections on public blogs and newspaper
articles. I was stunned at how vile
people could be. Most of whom use an alias but some, so sure that their
responses are acceptable behavior, use their real names. Some people are just
bullies who would never say anything to anyone’s face, but feel safe doing so
in cyberspace. The attacks shocked me and I am not easily shocked… in fact I
can be frightfully candid when the situation calls for it… but some of these
situations did not call for anything other than compassion. I wanted to write
to these publications and blast these bullies for being bullies… but that
didn’t seem right either. I knew I couldn’t shame them, so I just sat on it for
a while, waiting for the urge (to verbally smack them upside the head and make
them see how puny their brains were), to dissipate. I tried not reading the
comments, but when the two issues converged, when the hideous comments written
were about the one other thing I was feeling passionate about and writing about—well,
I had to act.
But, let me digress for just a minute here--I started walking
around my little town sometime in April of 2013. First a mile, then two and
then three, four, five and six miles some days. Around July 2013, I ran into an
old friend, my old roommate from the 70s who I hadn’t seen for over 30 years
and we started walking together with our dogs and talking about everything
including our shared shock of how people view other peoples misfortunes with
such disdain. I realized then, that if I was out of step with the world so was
she, so at least there were two of us. My wheels started turning.
It was on my alone walks though, with just my dog, that I
started noticing a lot more homeless people than ever before. They were camping
out in public instead of the open space areas. Small areas of trees next to
shopping centers, or schools or churches, usually near a creek but always near
foot traffic. Some of them had carts full of their belongings, some had only
backpacks, some had built lean-tos, some looked spaced out, and some looked
drunk, some looked crazy; some looked depressed (Who wouldn’t be?). A few had
dogs. One lady hung out at the laundry mat in the afternoon until it closed,
one guy parked his cart and his collection of I don’t know what on one of the main streets and greeted
everyone that walked by like he was the mayor. Their faces were dirty and
wrinkled beyond their ages and most of them were missing some or all of their teeth.
Their hair was matted and yes, they smelled bad. I didn’t see one person who
could have gone and gotten a job that day. They needed more help than that.
During those first few months of walking, the weather was still warm. I
found myself looking for them though, making sure everyone made it through the
night. A seed was planting.
While all that was happening, a debate started hitting the
town council meetings, the bloggersphere and newspapers about affordable
housing. From what I read, the majority of people in Marin County were not pro
affordable housing. Some cited valid reasons like high density and traffic and
others plain and simple said if you can’t afford to live here you should not
live here. Others still, said they didn’t want the riff-raft in their
neighborhoods. They didn’t want blacks or Mexicans moving in from other
blighted areas (Like Vallejo). Wait a minute I told myself… I can’t afford to
live here! I barely get by and I have 2.5 jobs.
I don’t smoke or drink or take vacations. How can these folks ever get
back on their feet without some help?
As I watched the debates unfold, I started making mental
notes of things that sounded off to
me. The issue was three fold or four fold and the information was one fold. My
confusion was compounded by the fact that many people I know and respect were
coming down on the anti-affordable housing side and I couldn’t figure out why
exactly. I knew two things. 1. Marin has
an abundance of homeless people (many people with children) and 2. Marin and
the Bay Area in general has an extreme shortage of apartments and homes for
rent. (At any price.) The rental market, which I am very familiar with because
one of my 2.5 jobs is a licensed Realtor, is off the charts this year. I leased
one three-bedroom two-bath home in San Rafael for over $3,200 in one week.
Another, in Novato, in less than two weeks.
I started digging for facts. What I found online was not
surprising since it backed up what I saw while I was out walking. But, what I
saw while walking was worse than reading about it. It was real, it was human. It was
inhumane. We care more about homeless animals than people in this county.
That’s what I saw. That is what I see every day.
The First Fold:
According to a report
by the Marin Independent Journal, the homeless biennial count in January of
2013 was 933, which was down from the previous years. However, the precariously
housed, people that may be facing eviction, or are living in overcrowded homes
or couch surfing, numbers have increased to 4,388, up from 4,179 in 2011.
The report continued. “Diane Linn,
director of Ritter Center in San Rafael, which provides services to the
homeless and working poor, said that number continues to rise because of
economic pressures and a lack of local affordable housing.
We are sorely short of affordable
housing options. There are no single-room housing occupancy options," Linn
said. "It's bad for the working poor out there. It's getting harder and
harder."
(*Linn
is no longer the director. Peter Lee has been the director since 2014)
The Second Fold: Plan
Bay Area, ABAG, and SB375:
Plan Bay Area is a state mandated, long-range housing and
transportation plan designed to reduce pollution and greenhouse gasses.
ABAG: Formed in 1961, the
Association of Bay Area Governments is the comprehensive regional planning
agency and Council of Governments (COG) for the nine counties and 101 cities
and towns of the San Francisco Bay region. ABAG has limited statutory authority
and requires major city and county votes for action. The concern of ABAG is
long-term growth, big picture, sustainability and conservation.
Signed into law by Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, SB375 is the Sustainable Communities and Climate
Protection Act of 2008; a State of
California law targeting greenhouse
gas emissions from passenger vehicles.
The Global Warming Solutions Act of 2006 (AB 32) sets goals for the reduction of statewide greenhouse gas emissions.
Passenger vehicles are the single largest source of greenhouse gas emissions
statewide, accounting for 30% of total emissions. SB 375 therefore provides key
support to achieve the goals of AB 32.
The Third Fold -Citizen Marin: Citizen Marin is comprised of
the leaders of neighborhood and community groups from throughout Marin County
who are wrestling with the demands of the Sustainable Communities Strategies
and SB375. They struggle with the concept of overbuilding Marin County with
affordable housing like high-density buildings in otherwise single-family home
neighborhoods. They cite issues like crime, traffic and simply maintaining “our
small town quaintness”.
Citizens Marin
group disagree with the scientific conclusions and contend that the
density mandate of 30 units per square acre is too high (20 is acceptable) and
that affordable housing (apartment complexes) will increase the crime rate.
I could go on and on here about the debate—but I’m really
only interested in the human element of the whole situation. If I have learned
nothing else in my 62 years, it’s that you have to care about other human
beings. I see homeless people and want to help, but I’m not sure how. I give
them money; sometimes I buy blankets and distribute them. I have made
sandwiches and brought them to people, but all the little things I do does
nothing to answer the greater problem.
To help me understand the greater problems regarding
affordable housing I made an appointment to talk to Mary Kay Sweeney, the
Executive Director of Homeward Bound of
Marin. Homeward Bound is Marin
County’s chief provider of shelter and residential services for homeless
families and individuals, serving approximately 1,400 people per year in 14
inter-related residential programs. No one understands homeless and the working
poor better than Mary Kay Sweeney and the people that work tirelessly at Homeward Bound of Marin.
Mary Kay Sweeney replied to my email request to meet and was
gracious enough to spend more than an hour with me explaining the homeless
issue in Marin and answering some of the questions I had regarding affordable
housing. Many of my questions were based on citizen responses to online blogs
and hearsay information from colleagues. I wanted to confirm my suspicions that
some of the facts people were sharing in cyberspace (and over lunches) were
complete or partial fabrications.
One of the responses I read on the Novato Patch –replying to
an article
on affordable housing was this one by someone who calls himself/herself
Bubbasixpack. (I’m sure he/she means beer and not abs)
Bubbasixpack July
09, 2013 at 04:33 PM
There are lot of empty houses
in Richmond, but they're empty because they moved here when invited by the
developers who couldn't fill the places they built in Novato. Fill up the empty
housing before we build more. Don't like where you live? Too bad. Stay in
school and out of jail. It worked for me.
I asked Mary Kay – specifically if she was importing people
from other cities to fill affordable housing units. She shook her head slowly-
adamantly no. I felt she had heard that
question before- and she was weary of it.
“No”, she said, “in fact, it’s the other way around; since there is little
or no affordable housing here we sometimes look in neighboring counties for our
transitional people.”
Bubba’s comment was one of the milder ones.
I read everything I could get my hands on regarding this
issue- but the most important research I did was right on the street. I started
putting dollars bills in my fanny pack that I use when walking the dog. As
Toshi and I walked around town and ran into homeless people, I started looking
them in the eye and saying hi. Just hi. They all wanted to pet Toshi. No one
asked me for a dime. A few times, I made sandwiches and delivered them but mostly
I just started giving them a buck or two when I could. The most important thing
was that I said hello. They were no longer invisible-- to me. Or scary. Or crazy.
Did they need baths? Yes. Did they need meds? Some did. Would they spend my
lousy dollar on cigarettes or booze? Maybe. All of them, every single one of
them thanked me and said God bless you. Some told me their story. Some didn't want to talk but all were polite. All of them pet Toshi and got some Toshi love.
Homelessness is a costly issue. There are multitudes of
problems that arise from the homeless people including wild fires started at encampments,
defecating and urinating in streams (or in Open Space areas) littering near
streams where many of them camp out. Transporting to hospitals due to exposure
to weather extremes or overdoses (on an already unhealthy body),
hospital expenses, arrests for loitering, illegal camping, etc. I’m not sure but I think there has to be a better way to manage this issue.
You might think that everyone that is homeless is a junkie
or drunk or someone who refuses to take their meds—but you would be wrong. Many people just like you and I are just one or two paychecks away from homelessness.
Anyone with a minimum wage job or even slightly above would be in real trouble
if they lost a week of work due to illness. Many low-income people work three
jobs to stay alive in Marin. If you lose your job and your home, getting into a
one-bedroom one-bath apartment in Marin County (providing you have excellent
credit) can easily cost 5000.00. In order to afford the least expensive studio
in Marin you need to make over $20.00 per hour.
Many argue, why wouldn’t people go where they can afford to
live? There are several reasons. Many of Marin’s homeless are from Marin- some
from one time affluent families in Tiburon or Ross. They stay because their families
are here, and occasionally some help them out, and because they are familiar
with the terrain. I can’t imagine being homeless and camping out and having to
go to a strange town where I didn’t know the safe places to go.
About 9% of the homeless in Marin County are veterans. Some suffer from PTSD or TBI. Many suffer
from drug and alcohol addiction. I’ve run into to a few of these vets while
walking Toshi, when I am wearing my USMC sweatshirt. They always ask me if I
was a Marine. No, I tell them. My son is. They tell me then, that they were Navy
or Army or they just say Semper Fi and I know the rest. “Thank him for his service,”
they say. Then I guiltily thank them for theirs—because clearly, our whole
country did not.
As the weather turned bitterly cold, I found myself driving
around in the morning and taking inventory of the homeless people I knew. They
had their regular spots and if there weren’t where they were supposed to be I worried.
I knew some wouldn’t make it through
winter. That was a sad fact.
In this 2013
report on homelessness in Marin County – the statistics are eye opening. In
one of the wealthiest counties in the nation—we have a ridiculous number of
homeless and almost five times that precariously housed individuals.
I’m not sure when Marin became so full of itself. Marin was
originally inhabited by the Miwok Indians and built on the backs of ranchers, fishermen
and blue-collar workers. In the early 1900s, Tiburon, one of this country’s wealthiest
cities, was a blue-collar railroad town, with cargo trains running daily. The wealthy
people that did live here were largely philanthropic and donated to a
variety of causes without fanfare. Most of us that grew up here, most, not at
all wealthy, but some who grew up in wealthy families too, find this snobbery
and lack of compassion disgusting.
I certainly don’t have all the answers. I do believe if
there were more people like Mary Kay Sweeny of Homeward Bound in the world,
that this problem could be solved tout de suite. She seems to have compassion, ability
to solve problems and implement processes for long-term success. Why city leaders
across Marin wouldn’t want to help her expand or copy her methodology (without
quid pro quo) I don’t know. Politicians it appears are only in it for their
votes and don’t really care about anyone who isn’t making it to the polls.
I can’t do anything about the bullies. They are stupid. They
are not worth my time. The only thing I can do because I am not a millionaire,
is help the organizations that actually are doing something, by either spreading
the truth about homelessness thereby changing the way some people think of the homeless or donating my time and money to places like Homeward Bound or Ritter House and teaming with other organizations that raise money for homeless veterans. Some people want to stay angry, I won't waste my time on them.
Across the nation, there are homeless people who need help
and across the nation, there are not enough facilities to help them. Every
year- every damn year, we find homeless people frozen to death or somehow
killed by the elements. It seems like a no-brainer to me. If it’s fear it could
be you… all the more reason to do something. I don’t know where the anger towards
these folks comes from. Oh yeah… your tax dollars. Well- in that case remember
the veterans… the ones we owe EVERYTHING to. Remember the sweat of all the
underpaid workers in the country that keep food on your table, watch your kids,
clean your houses, change your oil, rotate your tires, cut your lawns, make
your fast food, work at your favorite retail outlet, or work at any one of a
million restaurants or bars you frequent. Because when they lose their jobs, (or even
lose work due to illness), they are in jeopardy of losing their homes.
I’m still walking. I’m still handing out dollars or
sandwiches and in the winter I’ll go to Goodwill and other places and buy
blankets to give away. It’s not enough. People have to care or this problem
will not go away.
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